Welcome Gathering

Wedding Rehearsal and Dinner

Marchiori Pavilion

Wedding Rehearsal

The Hall

Rehearsal Dinner

St. Bonaventure University

Wedding Ceremony

Ceremony

Cocktail Hour

Doyle Hall Conference Center

Dinner

Dance Party!!!!

Wedding Reception

Sunday Brunch

Our Wedding

Our Story

Our Adventures Together

Sporting Events

Engagement Pictures

Weddings

Photos

Haley "Moonshine" and Bethany "Sunshine" have been friends for over 20 years. They met when Haley was in Mrs. Pendl's second grade class. They spent their childhood climbing trees, camping, mucking stalls, and tormenting Haley's brother, Snot Muffin. 

Haley Ruffner

Maddie and Bethany met in college during Bethany's sophomore year. They became fast friends and lived together Bethany's senior year. After college, Maddie moved to Olean and took a job working for the same hospital as Bethany. She now lives in Allegany with her husband and baby boy!

Maddie Nedell

Abi and Bethany met on move in day of college! Abi was in 303, and Bethany was in 307. They became friends instantly and were proud members of "The Blondies". They went on countless crazy adventures together in college, from camping, to wine tours, to random drives around the lake.  Bethany loved cheering on Abi at her LAX games. The adventures have continued well past college.

Abi Rahrle

Sophia and Bethany met in college. They were on the same cross country team all four years, but they did not start to get close until sophomore year. They roomed together junior and senior year. A few years after college, Sophia moved to Olean and lived with Bethany again! They continue to hang out weekly, going to dance classes, taking walks, or getting their margarita fixes. 

Sophia Sheldon

Bret is Bethany's "cousin"! Her mom, Aunt Nettie, went to college with both of Bethany's parents. They have known each other since birth and have been on many wonderful adventures together. They love catching up and filling each other in on what has been happening in their lives. 

Bret Daily

Nate and Colton first met in 2017 when Colton joined the Hinsdale Fire Department. Nate took Colton under his wing, and they’ve been best friends ever since. They love road trips, discovering new restaurants, and the occasional bonfire — and they’re lucky to live just down the street from one another.

Nate Douglas

Zach and Colton met in the police academy in 2022 and went on to join the Olean Police Department. They've been lucky to work together—sharing shifts for several years. Off duty they swap ideas for house projects and enjoy riding four wheelers. Colton likes to remind Zach that he has seniority on him, although Zach is a Sergeant and has a decade of policing experience on Colton.

Zach Harrington

Austen and Colton have been friends since second grade — teammates, classmates, and partners in countless adventures. They grew up playing sports, sharing hobbies, and graduating together, then went on to work side by side at the police department for some time. Colton practically grew up at the Darcy house and has always felt like another member of Austen’s family.

Austen Darcy

Colton and Nicholai’s friendship stretches back to middle school, after Nicholai moved to the area—no single day marks its start, just years of shared memories. They’ve made countless trips to Toronto, and Colton still remembers the time he drove down to Georgia; together they turn every visit into an adventure. Nicholai is one of Colton’s closest friends, and a good phone call every once in awhile is all it takes to pick up right where they left off.

Nicholai Dowdy

Although he could not be here in person to celebrate, Colton and Bethany wanted Bethany's older brother, Nicolas, to be a part of their day. He was Bethany's role model and protector growing up. He and Colton would have gotten along very well, it is only fitting that he is a groomsman.

Nicolas Pendl

Wedding Party

We&nbsp;have&nbsp;a&nbsp;block&nbsp;of&nbsp;rooms&nbsp;booked&nbsp;at&nbsp;this&nbsp;hotel&nbsp;for&nbsp;a&nbsp;discounted&nbsp;rate.&nbsp;This&nbsp;hotel&nbsp;is&nbsp;directly&nbsp;across&nbsp;from&nbsp;the&nbsp;venue&nbsp;and&nbsp;is&nbsp;walkable.&nbsp;There&nbsp;is&nbsp;a&nbsp;pool,&nbsp;a&nbsp;fire&nbsp;pit,&nbsp;a&nbsp;grill,&nbsp;and&nbsp;a&nbsp;great&nbsp;outdoor&nbsp;area.&nbsp;You&nbsp;must&nbsp;book&nbsp;by&nbsp;June&nbsp;7,&nbsp;2027&nbsp;in&nbsp;order&nbsp;to&nbsp;get&nbsp;the&nbsp;group&nbsp;rate.&nbsp;

Fairfield by Marriott Inn & Suites Olean

Be sure to check Air BnB and VRBO if you are in need of a bigger space! 

Travel

Some of our favorite restaurants in town are The Beef and Barrel, Hometown Bar and Grill, the Eatery, and Napoli's. We love to get breakfast at Green Acres and the Kopper Keg and coffee at The Coffee Shop in Franklinville and the Perfect Blend. There are so many great ice cream spots, including Klice's Kones, the Scoop, and Twist and Shake.

Places to Eat

For our Outdoorsy Guests, Allegany State Park is a great place to visit. There are countless trails to hike, two lakes to swim in, some very fun playgrounds, and a bike loop. You can even check out Thunder Rocks!

Allegany State Park

Ellicottville is about 30 minutes from Allegany, and it is a great place to visit! There are a lot of cutes shops and restaurants to explore. One of our favorite things in Ellicottville is Ratchet Hatchet Axe Throwing.

The Ratchet Hatchet

Also in Ellicottville, Sky High Adventure Park is a ropes course in the trees of Holiday Valley. It has different leveled climbing course and is great for kids. While at Holiday Valley, you can also check out some hiking trails or the Mountain Coaster.

Sky High Adventure Park

A little closer to home, Rock City Park is a great area to explore right in Olean! there is a walking path that takes you around some large boulders that you can climb on and explore.

Rock City Park

St. Bonaventure has a beautiful, paved walking trail. It goes along the river and is very peaceful. You can start it by the tennis courts off of East State Street.

Allegheny River Valley Trail

Things to Do

**Please note, children under 14 are invited to other events throughout the weekend, such as the Welcome Gathering.**

Q + A

Map of St. Bonaventure University

The wedding ceremony will take place at the Marchiori Pavilion (number 31 on the map). The reception will take place at Doyle Conference Center (number 7 and 8 on the map). It is recommended to enter the "Main/East Entrance" at the intersection of Constitution Avenue and West State Street. You will then drive down St. Bonaventure Road and park in the large lot off to the right. It will be your second right after entering the campus. Handicap parking is located slightly further down the road. The recommend route and parking area are highlighted in purple on the map above.

Bethany & Colton

Bethany & Colton

B&C

Welcome Gathering

Wedding Ceremony

2:15 PM–2:45 PM

Ceremony

3:00 PM–4:30 PM

Cocktail Hour

5:00 PM–6:00 PM

Dinner

6:00 PM–9:00 PM

Dance Party!!!!